I often think reflect on how easy it is as we get older to become calloused, jaded, cynical and surly and honestly on my worst days I am all of those things rolled into one delightful ball of fury. Life can chew us up and spit us out, often with no mercy, and I can completely understand someone’s heart growing colder with time.
I know that, even though I went through seasons of my life where I hardened myself against the world, I came into this life with a tender soul and a loving heart. I remember how I use to wake up in the middle of the night because I was concerned that my family wasn’t fully tucked into their blankets. So I would get out of bed, peer into everyone’s room and if the blanket wasn’t pulled snugly against the chin I would tiptoe over and make sure it was.
It’s been a journey in my adult years to open myself, soften my heart, and allow the love & compassion inside of me to flow freely and abundantly. I may have resisted and suppressed it, but it is in 100% my nature along with every single one of us.
I say this as a reminder for myself that the way forward, through the growing pains we’re all going through as a human species, not only includes but necessitates: a commitment to love, a courageous spirit, the empathy to see the humanity in one another, and building our roots in character + integrity.
I see you, my friend and I am glad you’re here.
To our growth,
Jean.